Are You Retired—and Bored?

People now recognize that the second half of life can mean a second wind – and not just a breeze but a gust to fill our sails. It is a time in life to contribute, learn and try new things. But the bonus of extended middle age is still so new that many discover that they failed to plan adequately for it.

Many retired people feel busy, but too often it's busy about things that don't cut to the quick of our lives. Maybe that's why studies show that 50 percent of retirees are bored.

"I left my company with no plan and no goals," said one former senior manager at a computer company who soon found himself adrift. He described his planning process like this: "Retirement looks great...So far so good...Now, wait a minute, I'm getting a little antsy...Oops, what have I done?"

This client did get ready financially to retire. But he didn't plan new goals to replace those of his career. He assumed that retirement would take care of itself.

If you think you’ve made a similar mistake, New Directions can help you resume a life of meaning and purpose. We can connect you with a host of ideas, resources and opportunities that can transform retirement from a boring prison into the most fulfilling phase of your life.

If you are trying to move in any of these new directions, remember that change is a zigzag process. Take it slow. Small steps can take you where you're headed. Connect with others. Find ways to stay energized and optimistic.

And take heart. You've done the hard part—recognizing your desire to change. If you want expert guidance, New Directions would be happy to guide you the rest of the way.